In our experience most families have a number of people and organizations that they will be required to contact at the time of a death. You may find this a helpful guide to assist you at this time. Immediate Contacts to Make: 1. Contact your clergy. Decide on time and place of funeral or memorial service. This can be done at the funeral home.
2. Make a list of immediate family, close friends and employer or business colleagues. Notify each by phone. 3. Decide on appropriate memorial to which gifts may be made (church, hospice, library, charity or school).
4. Gather obituary information, including age, place of birth, cause of death, occupation, college degrees, memberships held, military service , outstanding work , list of survivors in immediate family. give time and place of services. The funeral home will normally write article and submit to newspapers (newspaper will accept picture and they will be returned intact).
5. Arrange for members of family or close friends to take turns answering door or phone, keeping careful record of calls.
6. If Social Security checks are automatic deposit, notify the bank of the death. 7. Coordinate the supplying of food for the next several days. 8. Consider special need of the household, such as cleaning , etc., which might be done by friends. 9. Arrange for child care, if necessary.
10. Arrange hospitality for visiting relatives and friends.
11. Select pallbearers and notify the funeral home.
12. Plan for disposition of flowers after funeral (church, hospital or rest home)
13. Prepare list of distant persons to be notified by letter and/or printed notice, and decide which to send to each.
14. Prepare list of persons to receive acknowledgments of flowers, calls, etc. Send appropriate acknowledgments (can be written note, printed acknowledgments, or some of each). Include "thank you's" to those who have given their time as well.
15. Notify insurance companies.
16. Locate the will and notify lawyer and executor.
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